Now that you're back, you can't stay away from the family. They've invited you to their 80th birthday party, which means you'll have to come back for dinner. It's not like they're going to invite you to stay for the night, but they'll do whatever they can to make sure you come back. The whole point of inviting you to dinner is to get you to do something with the family that you didn't want to do in the first place. So, if you don't come back to dinner, then you won't be invited back to the party. And if you do come back, it'll be because you've lied to the family about your divorce. And now that you have lied to them, the whole family is going to blame you for the whole mess. And it's going to be worse than it was before.