In this chapter, we meet a thirty-year-old bachelor who has been living with his parents for the past 30 years. He tells us that it has been a while since he's been back to his house, and he apologizes. He says that it's his fault that he hasn't been home for so long, because he and his parents often ignore one another's feelings. He apologizes for not being more considerate of his parents, but he says that qiuyu taught him that he should be more "careful of my parents" . He's happy that he has met the right man. He also says that he wants to be his son-in-law, even if that means that his mother doesn't understand him. He explains that it took him so long to learn to understand his son, and that he is worried that cheng's mother will not understand him if he breaks up with her son. He adds that breaking up with a woman is impossible, because there are so many other women out there who would be willing to do the same thing for him. .