The father is furious with his son-in-law, who is trying to sell his donkey to pay back his debt. The elder , who has sold his mother when he was poor, is still his uncle, and he is still trying to give his grandchildren to him. He is angry that his son still has to give him grandchildren. He says that he knows how to respect his elders, and that if he does not, then the younger son does not have to respect him either. He tells his son that he will be taking their leave, and the elder says that kaiquan has lost his way in life, and wants to get married to a pig instead of a man. He also says that if they had given in a little, the family would have become dependent on them in the future