Mr. Gan tells his daughter-in-law that if she doesn't marry sheng, she'll have to get married someone else. He also tells her that she's his daughter, so he's the one who's responsible for her getting married. He says that if he didn't give birth to her, she wouldn't be his daughter now. He tells her not to worry about her anymore, since he'll take care of her now since he never cared for her before.