The Governess tells her sister-in-law why she didn't tell her grandparents about the engagement. She says that she was afraid that her grandfather would object to the birth of her illegitimate child and she just wanted to take care of the Governess and her two siblings. She's so happy to see her family so happy. She tells her brother that she's here for her engagement ceremony and then she tells her mom that her fiance is "ling yao" and that she wants to run away from home. She asks her mom not to tell her parents about her running away and she says that's fine. She also tells her mother that she knew from the beginning that she wanted to escape the marriage that her grandpa arranged for her. She adds that she doesn't know why her grandpa would want her to marry someone she doesn1t know and she tells him that she already knew that when she first met him. He says that he doesn1