In this short scene, the narrator tries to convince the reader that it's better to be in love with someone who is "properly" married than someone who's "just hanging out" with a bunch of random guys. He tells us that he doesn't want to "cross that line" until he's sure that his "heart is ready" . He's also worried that the guy in question is "too pushy" and "too slappy" , which is a fancy way of saying that he wants to "kiss the feel" of the guy's body . The narrator's worried that he'll get into a fight with the guy if he tries to kiss him too hard. He also worries that if he kisses too hard, the guy will slap him, which will make him "crazy" and cause him to "get angry later" on in the scene. He asks the narrator to help him get to the point, but the narrator can't