The song opens with a creak of pant on someone's chest. It's a sexual innuendo, but the narrator doesn't seem to know what he's talking about. He's not sure how to respond to someone who's trying to make him feel better about himself. He wants to know how to control himself, and he can't figure out how to do it. He asks the narrator to show him the "control" side of the guy. The narrator tries to get the guy to say something nice, but he'll only do it if the guy is "younger" .