Heiju asks him what he's up to, and he tells him to go to the bathroom. He says he'll just give him a drink, and they'll have a drink together. He asks if she's drinking too fast, and she says no. He tells her to shake, shake, and shake. He's worried about her face, and asks her if she has a headache. She says she does, and then asks him to fill her drink. He doesn't know what to do, so he gives her a soft drink and tells her not to worry. He then tells her that he has a meeting to attend after the retreat, and that the owner of the place has complimented him on how pretty he and his friends are. The owner gives them a free drink, he says, and tells them that he gave it to them for free because he was feeling so good. He goes on to say that maybe he had too much to drink, but that he shouldn't be so drunk to stay awake and stumble. He wants to have sex, but he can't remember what it was like to be drunk. He remembers that someone woke him up and he knew it was "a woman" . He knows it's a woman because she smells like alcohol. He didn't ask her to tell him to follow her, he just followed her, just like his male instincts told him to do so.