In this chapter, we learn that the "puppet wife" of the prince's wife is going to return home, and that she's going to visit the "shang family" instead of going to her husband's house. This is a big deal, because the prince has married ten women, and all of them have died for no reason. It's not just that the prince wants to protect his wife, but that the marriage is also a form of "humiliation" for the family. The hostess of the house is sick, and she'll be visiting the family the next day. This means that the hostess sent a gift without giving herself a present, and it's kind of weird that she would think that she could be arrogant for sending a gift to a family that's so famous. We're not sure what the hostess is talking about, but we're guessing that she means to give a present to the family that she is visiting, and not to her own family. We don't know